Your girlfriend wasn’t happy, and honestly you did not listen to her. She reached her breaking point, and called the whole relationship off. But you really like her, and you want to reconcile, so you need to follow our Go Big, or Go Home plan for getting back together.
This plan, admittedly, is not for everyone. If you have been low key for the past two years with your girlfriend, this may look fake to her. And if your former partner hates big gestures and drama, this may cause her to leave the country and to never come near you. Proceed with caution in this plan, and make sure it suits you perfectly. There are several different routes you can take. Just do one of the gestures, any more than that would be just too overwhelming.
Love Notes Hanging in a Tree
Before you start this, you would want to ensure that your lady has a tree with branches and that you do not have to enter a fenced or gated yard. You also want to make sure that she is in the state of mind where you won’t look like a stalker and she won’t call the police. Proceed only after you have verified these things.
This is a big impact and low cost move. You will need to write about 100 loves notes and attach them to strings. For a better effect, use colorful ribbons. When you run out of ideas, simply write famous love quotes on the paper. You do want all of the missives to be hand-written, as this is more impactful.
In the light of day, so you do not look like a thief, but when she is away from the home, tie your notes to the tree branches. The end result is simply gorgeous. And if it does not work, you will have ended the relationship on the most beautiful note possible. If it does work, be ready for tears of joy and reconciliation.
The Vacation You Never Took
Contact your former girlfriend and offer to take her on the vacation you two never went on together. This is an expensive ploy, and you need to be ready to spend the money without knowing if it will work. Bite your tongue about the expenses and if you can’t afford this plan, then do not even try it.
When you book it, make sure she gets her own room no matter the trip plan. She has to have the space to see that you have changed and you really want her to be part of your life. You need to be very respectful and non-threatening for the entire trip. Her wish will be your command.
As you enjoy your time together, begin to make references to the high points in your relationship. Also, begin to change your bad flaws. This is not to say that you should become someone other than yourself, but if you have nasty habits, then correct them. If you need to do a better job of listening, then actually listen to her on the vacation. As always, there is no guarantee this will work, but it will make a lasting and very positive impression on your ex-girlfriend. Go into the venture with a realistic attitude, and you may be surprised at the end result.