There are many times when a girl and boy have broken up but the guy regrets it and wants the girl back but, that is often easier said than done and it will be down to the guy to work hard if they are to succeed.
To start with there are three olden rules that you should not do as they all too often have the opposite effect to what you wanted.
The first is you should never beg for an ex to come back to you. Men are not pets and so girls do not think them cute when they beg, they think they are weak and so the girl will lose respect for you. Even if she did return, it would be out of a feeling of sympathy and so the relationship would not last.
The second thing you should not do is threaten any kind of action either to her or yourself. The ‘I can’t go on without you’ approach will only make her, at best, return to you through pity and once again any further relationship would be short lived. Thirdly never bring up the past.
Although you may think that reminding her of some of the good times you shared together will help, all too often it just also reminds the girl of the bad times too, cementing in her mind the reasons why she left you.
Of course though there are two approaches you could take to win her back, depending on whether she left you or you left her.
One of the most common reasons why men dump girls is because the girl was cheating on them but in fact, if the girl was cheating, in reality it meant she had already dumped them and so they should treat it that way when choosing how to get her back.
Basically there are three reasons why a girl may break up and they are the boy tried too hard, he didn’t try enough or because you moved away from each other. If it was one of the first two reasons you have to question yourself and decide which of the two it was and be honest with yourself.
As you make your advances to getting her back you must have the reason for her breaking up foremost in your mind. For example, if she left you because you were trying too hard, you certainly will not want to pressure her into returning, act casual allowing her to see that you are no longer so intense.
If she left because she didn’t think you tried hard enough to keep the relationship, put more effort into getting her back and let her know that you do really care for her.
If the distance between you was the only problem, it will probably mean that she still has feelings for you and so it should be easier to get her back but you will have to find a solution to the distance problem by perhaps arranging regular visits somehow.